August 27th, 2014

GOD bless the exes!

GOD bless the exes!

Okay so I know this may sound weird but I am really thankful for my past loves.

No seriously. (Stop laughing and/or giving me the side eye.)

I was tweeting yesterday about understanding your personal love language. Your love language (by my definition) is the way you show love. It can also be the way you best receive love.

I have found that the most clear way that I show love is by devoting time…

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August 1st, 2014

Who gets custody of the “friend”?

Who gets custody of the “friend”?

The hard part about breakups is realizing who gets custody of the “friends”.

Seriously, this is incredibly tricky when couples run in the same circles. It often makes me wary about even dating someone who runs in the same circle as me. Why add more drama to an already uncomfortable situation?

Their friends were always their friends and only became your friend because you were dating them.

This…

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July 30th, 2014

See this is why…

See this is why…

See this is why fucks cannot be given

You give one and they want them all

They want them how they want them

When they want them

Heaven forbid the turtle move too slowly for them

All fucks should be given immediately

This is why fucks cannot be given

Because then when you try to tell them water is wet

They look at you like you are crazy

Tell them fire is hot

They look at you like you’re the one…

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January 29th, 2014

How To Love Me

Love me like comfort food Gravy on your mashed potatoes Shrimp with your grits Chicken in your soup Leftover spaghetti and warm garlic bread   Love me like a crack addiction
24 hours without me leaves you feenin for your next hit
Like potato chips after…

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January 28th, 2014

Yes, you are right

you are right i am just like every other girl you’ve met before i have ulterior motives i am out for myself only worried about pleasure focused on only your shine simply wanting to tan in it trying to take what i can get and move on trying to spend all…

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An honest & specific prayer

Dear God,

Please send me a freak

a wake up in the morning trying to get the day started right freak a sit me on the kitchen counter and eat me until no longer hungry freak a “baby let me get my fingers caught in your hair while you show me what that mouth…

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January 18th, 2014

Excuse me miss… why you so angry?

  1. Because you asked me that question.
  2. Because you used incorrect grammar doing it.
  3. Because Mountain Dew doesn’t come in an IV drip.
  4. Because a nine year old little girl knows all the words to every ratchet song on the radio but can not read.
  5. Because I just…

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How to love me

Love me like comfort food
Gravy on your mashed potatoes
Shrimp with your grits
Chicken in your soup
Leftover spaghetti and warm garlic bread

Love me like a crack addiction
24 hours without me leaves you feenin for your next hit
Like potato chips after…

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There are words there

From the moment our lips touched
I knew there were words there
I was prepared for my unexpected decision
to break rules set by the
stick-in-the-mud other half of my personality
Love keeping people on their toes
But I wasn’t prepared for the
split second…

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The Reason

Let me be the reason behind your smile.

The random text message after a crazy commute.

The note in your coat pocket describing/encouraging your world domination.

The mental picture that causes the edges of your lips to stand at attention.

The surprise…

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November 20th, 2013

She is…

inspired by the song “She is” by NeYo featuring Tim McGraw…

I place complete blame on her.

That smile is so very intoxicating.

Hit me like an unexpected uppercut.

Those eyes defibrillated my damaged heart.

My heart, head, and hormones agree.

See this is…

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November 19th, 2013

PTSD

Trust no one
They are all out for something
And I have nothing
Everything is gone
They have been here before
And they have taken it all
All the trust
All the hope
Left me paranoid
Depressed
Anxious
Sitting in the corner
No more tears
Only screams
I want…

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November 11th, 2013
Borrowed this from @topnotcht cause it is the DAMN TRUTH!!! #relationships #dating #love #life #truth #lies #romance #realtalk

Borrowed this from @topnotcht cause it is the DAMN TRUTH!!! #relationships #dating #love #life #truth #lies #romance #realtalk

November 6th, 2013

Nanowrimo Prompt ~ 6/30

You are in a grocery store/farmer’s market with the person you find yourself falling for.

Your vocal cords are not working.

There are no paper products to write on or with words that can express your feeling for you.

All you have is food and drinks.

How…

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October 29th, 2013

Is it crazy…

Is it crazy that life being too short is EXACTLY the reason I have no intentions on telling my crush that they are the object of my affection?

I mean seriously, the argument could be made saying that I have nothing to lose. However, I see that there is so much to lose. Making things awkward could just kill any hope at a potential friendship which is really all I am equipped to deal with in the first place. You can never be too sure who can appreciate the idea of a crush and not make it out to be the end of the world or the beginning of forever. 

I am leaning heavily towards letting nature take its course. If it is meant to be there isn’t a damn thing I can do to stop it from happening. I am not planning on fighting it. I simply don’t want to make the mistake of skipping steps.

Does that make any sense?